My earliest spiritual teachers used
to say that "gratitude is a very high state." Even Bhagavan
says that gratitude is the "highest human emotion." But coming from
a scientific background I sometimes still hear a tiny inner voice
saying, "Prove it."
Well, now
scientists have.....but I've written this article in
laymen's terms to explain why gratitude should play an even bigger
part of our daily routines.
--P. J., November, 2007
Research into the behavior and psychology
of gratitude proves what people of faith have known all along--that
giving thanks brings a multitude of blessings back to
you. Just by giving thanks you
can have better health with less stress, better relationships, and
be happier and more successful overall.
As children we're taught to always be
polite: to say "yes, ma'am" and "thank you." As
teenagers we found that a profusion of "thank you's" seemed to help
keep us out of trouble with teachers, parents, and other ruling
adults. Then later, as maturing
adults entering society and the business world, we found that it
was to our benefit to continue with the polite thank you's.
It made people like us and we were more socially
acceptable.
However, there was rarely any real
gratitude behind the thanks.
No matter what religious faith you were
raised in, all taught that giving thanks is a virtue; it's an
important tenet in all religions. Even so, saying thanks
was still mostly just a rote response. It usually isn't until
we begin to walk a more esoteric, spiritual path that saying thanks
and expressing gratitude takes on a real meaning for us.
As we spiritually awaken, we come to
realize that we can no longer give thanks unconsciously. Our
hearts began to open and flower, and we find that we are deeply and
truly grateful for many things. It's not only the beautiful
(and sometimes overwhelming) emotion of gratitude that finally got
our attention, but we also intellectually discovered that
expressing gratitude can benefit us profoundly in
many ways.
This is what Bhagavan has to say about
it:
"I've always maintained that
[enlightenment] is a neurobiological process, so when you go into a
state of gratitude the brain itself functions as a much better
instrument. Which in turns proves very helpful in raising
your states of consciousness.....So in actual experience we have found people who have
the sense of gratitude move much faster [on their spiritual path]
than those who do not."
After several years of in-depth research, scientific
studies have now proven the benefits of expressing gratitude, and
some even feel it's the secret key that unlocks your full life's
potential. These remarkable findings, published in
a best-selling book, show that some of the
physical and psychological benefits of gratitude are:
Physical--
improved health
stronger immune system
fewer headaches and colds
less stress
better brain function
tendency to exercise more
longer life
Psychological--
happier
more successful
more optimistic
better relationships
more well-liked by others
more creative
more resilient to life's challenges
There are many ways to express gratitude, but as a method of
spiritual growth it's best to make it a conscious practice.
One simple way is to, each morning after waking up,
think of several things you're grateful for about your life.
Then each evening before going to sleep, think of 3-5 things you
are grateful for that happened during your day. (Writing them
down also helps.)
After just two months of giving thanks in this easy manner,
you can't possibly be the same person you were before you began the
practice.
Only five days after I began the simple practice of giving
thanks twice a day as described above, I noticed that I began to
spontaneously express gratitude at other times during the
day. Simple beauties in daily life became more evident.
I guess it's true that "appreciation appreciates" in more ways than
one. Expressing gratitude got just easier and easier all by
itself.
Consciously being grateful everyday for all the abundance in
your life sets into motion the ancient law that basically says,
"the more you're grateful for, the more you get." You
benefit, the world benefits, and the collective consciousness
benefits...so let your gratitude begin to grow and show.
More benefits from
gratitude...
When I first saw the movie What the Bleep Do We Know, I was so
intrigued with Dr. M. Emoto's work shown in it that I
looked into his research with water crystals, as to how
words, thoughts, prayer, music, and even pictures effect their
formation (shown beautifully in the video below).
When Dr. Emoto was asked if there was any particular word or
phrase that was the most helpful, he said yes. Then went on
to explain that the words "love" and "appreciation" are combined in
the one English word "gratitude." One without the other
didn't have the same effect, but when the two words are put
together, the special combination creates an even more potent
vibration.
Knowing that all matter is intrinsically vibrational, I did a
little test of my own. I took two identical glasses filled
with equal amounts of water, and let them sit overnight. The
only difference was that one was placed over a piece of paper that
had the words "love gratitude" written on it.
The chlorine that's added to water to help sanitize it can
effect its taste, so the next morning I drew a third glass of tap
water to compensate for any chlorine that had evaporated overnight
from the test glasses. Then I immediately tasted all three
glasses, and yes, there was a difference in the love/gratitude
water.
This was hardly bona fide, double-blind research, and the
results were subtle, but the water in the love/gratitude glass
seemed "sweeter." Try it yourself and see. I now
routinely set all my water containers over the words "love
gratitude."
Since our bodies are made up mostly of water, think about how
you might benefit by exposing yourself more to inspirational
works, beautiful pictures, and special music from Dr. Emoto in your home,
workplace, etc. You'll quickly realize how applying some
of Dr. Emoto's findings to your own life and environment--and
reaping the benefits--can be practically effortless.
"If the only prayer you said in your whole life was,
'thank you,' that would suffice."